2011年12月29日星期四

What Drives a Man Crazy?

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What do men love about women? Is it her hair, her legs, breasts, lips? Well, whether you like or not, the truth is, men are first attracted to a woman who is totally fit from head to toe. It could be a reflection of the ancient thought that men and women both tend to seek those who will be good partners for proliferation. In today's day and age men are still drawn by female allure. But what exactly does that mean?Men love to see a woman's figure so sweat pants are totally a turn off!
fishnet dress,When a man sees a woman in a shorter skirt or dress, long legs, polished look from head to toe---they are going to look! After all, women are built differently and unlike other mammals they stand erect with certain body parts screaming "look at me." I doubt that women or men were put together haphazardly - it all seems too perfect doesn't it?What else do men look for in a woman? They love women who are self-confident, intellectually progressive (usually) perhaps more of a responsible and stable person as well. Let me tell you though that a man will definitely overlook your brains if they see a nice juicy set of lips that sparkle or ample breasts. Sexy women, and age does not matter here, have fuller lips that make a man wonder what it would feel like to kiss them. They may even fantasize long before it gets that far, how you will taste and if you really might be a good kisser. So try rolling a tasty little gloss over your lipstick for a wet and seductive effect. If the color lip gloss you choose highlights your face that will be a total plus!From what men have shared with me over the years, and through psychological research evaluations, it appears that the majority of men think that the sexiest women are those with longer flowing hair. Color may or may not matter as long as the appeal is there. Medium and longer hair says you are feminine and love to be a woman. Sweet sexy smelling hair (for men and women really) is totally a wonderful treat.Shimmering gorgeous hair is another sign that you are healthy and attractive and that shine may just represent that you have a sparkling personality so they will want to know more about you. As you take extra care with yourself it will show.Ladies please use moisturizers from face to feet; that glowing skin also screams of vibrance. No matter what your age your hairstyle should represent the core of you.sexy clothing, If you are perky and sassy perhaps a shorter hair cut will attract the sports-minded guy or that cosmopolitan fellow you desire. For those that are more traditional minded those longer tresses may appeal. Some ladies adore men with longer hair and others love the collegiate cut on their men. Some ladies love facial hair and others do not. Some men do adore shorter hair or up-swept hair because it shows a beautiful neck. lace underwear, Let your best attributes speak for themselves. Draw attention to your eyes, cheek bones, or other body parts - whatever makes you feel sexy.Something that has always attracted me to a man is his winning smile. If a guy doesn't have a great smile, I'm not as interested. People with great smiles seem to sparkle from the inside out; they are saying I love life and I am interested in you. Men like women who are not glum, they love women who are cheerful and vivacious. Just as women adore a man with a great sense of humor, men too love it when a woman laughs at their jokes. After humor, intelligence is considered an attractive trait. Hopefully you are well read and versed in world affairs, cultural details and the important issues like sports, politics, and music. Have your own interests and be respectful of what your date enjoys. Be a great listener. I think that many people tend to talk more than they listen. My Dad used to say that we have two eyes, two ears and one mouth - so being a good observer and a good listener is much more important in life.Independent women tend to be sexier to a man. A lot of men enjoy knowing that a woman can take care of herself and has her own passions and interests and goals in life.lingerie, Try not to complain about life when you are dating...that is a real turn off. Men also enjoy women who are truly caring and more sensitive, but not the ones who cry at the drop of a hat.Now as things heat up in your relationship be sure that you continue to look sexy all the way to your underwear because men at any age adore sexy looking lingerie. And why not, I think that naked bodies are even more beautiful when they are first covered and then undressed. Men do enjoy disrobing women and would thoroughly be happier removing your Victoria Secret bra and panties than some ugly beige grannie panties your mother would wear. With that said, go out and get excited about having a relationship and make yourself look sexy all the way down to the "down-low!" Ask your man what fragrances he most enjoys and wear his favorite parfum. Every man has different likes and dislikes. You could be wearing the most expensive scent and it may or not do it for him - so always ask.Next, change things up--wear a push up bra one time and a see through Teddy another. Try lace, silk, and different colors and see what turns your man on. After all, pleasing your partner is mental, emotional and physical. Surprise him by wearing a a black bra and a see through blouse on your next date. He will be thinking about nothing else the entire evening. Rest assured we women also want our men to look great and smell great in the bedroom. Really sexy guys can wear anything from a T-shirt and no shorts to towel wrapped around a freshly showered body. They should also be self-confident and desirable, it works both ways. Whether you feel more comfortable with the lights on or off is totally personal - but I say experiment with time of day and lighting.Men may not care as much about the pretty smelling candles that you adore, but they will definitely be turned on if you unveil heels, garters, and a sexy bra. Some men though adore girls in nothing but a long shirt and nothing more.I do know that men, even if they are a good cook, love women who can cook for them as well. What a nice feeling for a man to come home from a long difficult day at the office and smell his favorite meal cooking. Have the table set, use the good dishes and glasses and pamper your man.Having a homemade meal on the table these days is certainly a treat, and sitting across the table from your lover can be a total turn on. If he would enjoy a drink, indulge him. Don't judge your man. Be respectful of the person that he is and all of his accomplishments as well as his current efforts. Some men may not even think much about how their life has touched others, but remind him of these things because it is important that all of us honor each other. Just spend time listening to him. Talk about his day, let him express at home what he cannot say at the office. Hold things in confidence. Men also love women who are discreet and don't tell the neighbors or friends about personal details. What an honor when your lover can feel totally confident in sharing intimate details of his life with you. Keep those moments sacred.Men are attracted to women who are genuine, those who love children and animals and the softer things in life. After all a woman is built totally differently than a man and nurturing others is part of her make up. Femininity is definitely attractive. Allow your man to open doors for you, and to treat you as a lady. This will make him feel as though he is caring for and protecting you which is very important to a man. Men love a woman who enjoys being held if for no other reason than to just distress from the day. They also love a woman who knows when to leave them totally alone.Enjoy being the sexy lady that you were meant to be and have fun attracting or keeping your special guy!

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